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So go ahead - try it. Next time something happens that makes you question your own role - ask yourself is this really about me? "It's hard to focus on what someone else needs when you're so focused on what their problem could mean about you!" Powerful. True. Believe it or not, not everything is about you (us). Let others own their actions, thoughts, deeds. You own yours. You'll find you have a lot less to carry around on those shoulders. God knows we have enough to carry around as it is.