|Save the Mondays for Mondays.|
Hello? Is this thing on?
Not sure if anyone is reading anymore.
I'm feeling crappy. I thought it was just a mean case of PMS but you know what, even PMS gets tired of taking the blame for everything all the time.
People are grouchy! I mean really grouchy!
Just go look in your newsfeed. I'll wait.
What did you see?
A shared blog/photo of someone picking on someone?
Oh, let me guess - an open letter to someone who picked on someone who picked on someone?
|I'm spotting a trend.... post. counter. rebuttal. satire. counter to satire. beat topic into ground until tiresome. drive everyone bonkers. death of topic. rinse repeat...|
MAKE IT STOP!
For the love, why is everyone so pissed off all of the time?
Everyone reserves the right to be offended at any given time!
There's a fight looming on every other post on Facebook!
You know, we talk about our kids acting up?
Adults are the worst!
I'm not saying everyone - but seriously, there is a Case of the Nasties going around and it's got to stop.
I saw this Tweet Pick this morning on Happyplace.com and I had to laugh because it is so true:
'Were you in a good mood? Let me help you with that.'-Internet comments
It's nearing the holidays..we need a little holiday cheering up.
So, here's my challenge. Don't worry, I'm going to do it too.
Don't do it.
When you want to go to it.
oops - sorry, that's a Frankie Goes to Hollywood song.
Anyhow - the challenge.
Stop the madness.
Stop getting mad.
Stop being mad.
Stop buying into the bullshit.
Find the joy.
It's all around you.
Sometimes you just have to look a little harder.
You know, every day I ask my kids to tell me ONE good thing that happened at school today. They find something - and I joke about it sometimes because their answers can be so silly - like I liked lunch, or I played at recess - or however small a detail it was, but they manage to do it. So can we. We can find something that made us happy, something that is positive and if we can't do that than dammit we better go out and make some happy for ourselves. Define your idea of happiness. Is it a quiet walk? A nap? A shopping trip? A visit with a friend? A run? What is it? Time to find out. Do it. Take your happy back.
|Just do it.|
Yesterday, I was at a soccer game for one of my boys. I was chatting with another mom. She had the horrific duty of telling someone they had been diagnosed with cancer. That was how her day was. She reminded me that when she has days like that, it's pretty easy to be grateful for simple things like health, and smiles, and kids, and soccer games and brush off the stress of rushing around, dealing with homework, cleaning up the kitchen and other mundane tasks of the daily grind.
I hate that I had to be reminded of how fragile life is. I'm someone who is usually pretty cheery in general but even I've been crabby lately. Between the government shutdown, the shitty news daily, and so much sadness swirling around the lives of others, it's hard to stay focused on what matters.
But I'm going to refocus. We've got one life, one shot, one go around.
It doesn't take that much effort to pass a nasty post by without indulging - or to hide a Debbie Downer from your newsfeed, or to take the high road - or even to rearrange something subtly in your mind to find the good instead of joining the feeding frenzy of the bad stuff.
I'm getting back on track - wanna join me?
|Oh Oprah..if only it was this easy. xo|
Keep smiling...Cheers and Love,